For more than a year, until some point in mid-1999, the commander was a member of a Lynnwood club called New Horizons, where swingers - some from the law enforcement community - meet and share Violette: I’m an English transplant and aspiring writer with a background in psychology. I think everybody has a story to tell. I’m bubbly and love making people happy, through laughter or counsel or a much-needed hug. I can talk about almost anything, quote Shakespeare, fail spectacularly at Mario Kart, and bake fantastic peanut butter cookies.